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If You’re Unhappy and You Know It – Can one have it all?

by | Mar 5, 2022

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There is SO much out there in the world on how to find love and happiness – for some, they’re interchangeable! There are books, songs, simple-(or difficult!)-to-follow steps, online advice, forums, animations, movies, documentaries… I don’t think I have enough space to list them all, but I’m sure you get my point!

I am here to tell you that love and happiness are definitely possible.

Most of us carry a strong belief that we will find love and happiness &through goals, careers, partners, friends, money, travel, sex, drugs, alcohol, food, new experiences, etc. You’ve probably been at a point in your life, many times over, where you’ve thought, “This is it! I’m happy! I hope it lasts!” Before you know it, this can’t-believe-your-luck feeling has turned into heartbreak, anger, boredom, hate, and you’re totally done. In fact, you look at the ex-source of happiness and think to yourself, “You used to make me happy… Now you don’t.” To rub salt into the wound, you’ve also spent all this time fearing that you’ll lose this one thing that’s finally made you happy. The unfortunate news is now you actually have lost it. Everything in your world comes crashing down. You’re back again to square one in your pursuit for better days.

I can imagine how emotionally draining this can be, not to mention the toll it has on your mental and physical well-being, relationships, and general outlook. Finding something meaningful in life to fill that emptiness is one uphill battle that can last for many, a lifetime.

The good news is you have a few options! One of them is to continue what you’ve been doing and inevitably end up in this exact same spot. The other option is to put an end to this distressing cycle you continually find yourself in, stamp your feet, and decide that NOW is the time to do things differently!

Love, happiness, meaning, purpose, filling the empty void, living a life you love, all starts with you.

Together, we can figure out what you want, what you stand for, what you love, where you’ve been and where you’re going, and why this all matters! I can guarantee one thing: nothing will change for you unless you take the necessary steps. There is no better time, than now.